Finding Happiness in life – prepare to change

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Before you start your journey to positive change, please read on, you will find the content very useful…

Pitfall of finding happiness on the Web

Finding happiness in life you have to prepare yourself to change. I made the mistake of falling victim of buying self-help programs and believing on some sites that promise you luck, abundance, manifesting etc. all these things are unless until you made a promise to yourself that you want to be happy. I found when I was interested in a site and wanted to know more, they always asked for your email address, then you get bombarded with emails with titles such as Your luck is going to change, you can be abundant in money, Your angels have a message for you, you get the picture. Sure some of these may help you but before you take that step you really need to focus on yourself first. So First prepare yourself to change.

There are Free ways to find enlightenment

There is so much content when you search the internet for relaxing, meditation, self-improvement, it’s mind-boggling but some are free. Fantastic right? well yes and no.,

All we want is to be able to free ourselves from the negativity of this busy world we live in, Yes? Another way to help kick start our way to be happy and positive is to find some inspiration to help us to clear the smoke and see our happy future.

I would like to share ways to obtain some of those tools, Try checking out: YouTube, search: meditation, self-help, inspirational, just name a few and check them out, if you find one that resonates with you, click on their link on Youtube page it may take you to their site or Facebook page, there you might find FREE relaxing music or meditation downloads. So much great relaxing music, speeches to choose from but before you do read the next paragraph.

The Best way to avoid Email bombardment

Create another email account, I found it to be the best way to manage my Inbox bombardment.

If you find a Website that feels you may get inspiration from and requires an Email address stop before you do, First of all, check out the Website by means of finding reviews, Google search, type or paste the name in the search, check the reviews, you really don’t want to be bothered of annoyance emails or sites that sell you products or services but don’t deliver or deliver absolute rubbish.

Always have another Email address, I can’t stress enough how valuable this is when signing up on new Website, leave your original email address for your bills etc. With content being sent to your new inbox it is so much easier to manage, if you come across an email you have unsubscribed of dose’not have an unsubscribe link that keeps coming up simply block that site, thankfully the best-reviewed sites have a link on the Email to unsubscribe, the only possible other issues I know of is your email address may be shared to other sites and potentially have a lot of unsubscribing to do.

Enjoying life with the right tools

After your experience of finding some inspirational freebies, all you have to do is listen, try to avoid video content as you really want to immerse yourself to sounds and/or speech. Remember this is your journey you have control, keep vigilant every day give yourself the much-needed time out (Relaxation) for at least half an hour.

You will know when the time is right to go to the next level, there are some truly fantastic programs out there to further boost you to be happy relaxed and most of all positive every day.

To get the best experience get a pair headphones but please only listen at a low volume in a quiet place away from any disturbance, feel the stress leave your body, once you have experienced that peace and self-love you’ll want it again and again…


This post has been bought about from my own personal experience and I am hoping to reach out to as many souls as possible. Pay it forward is a process I now believe, it’s another tool to welcome happiness and love to all. Please help reach out to others in need by leaving a comment so you may inspire others to be happy.

“Happiness is not something ready-made. It comes from your own actions.”

Dalai Lama

9 thoughts on “Finding Happiness in life – prepare to change”

  1. Thanks for making this article and suggesting places that I can get free tools and meditations for myself. Do you think that meditating with music is the best or is the best way to meditate on the good things in your life? Is having a clean inbox a form of meditation in it’s own regard? Do you like meditating on music?

    • Hi Jon,

      Thank you for your comments, Everybody is different the only way to find the one, is trial different types of media. I tend to use different ones, when I cant seem to get settled I will listen to one that guides me to meditate other days I will listen to just the sound of nature or sound of bells in the back ground with rain falling, so cool to listen to.

      I think you have given me an idea to create another post.

      As for the clean inbox again everyone different, think of a desk in your office if you a like me I have paper every where but in some sort of order inbox full or you maybe the type of person who likes tidiness and structure ( clean desk) creates files and store different emails .

      I suppose in some way when I clean up my inbox I do feel accomplishment and that a cool feeling.

      Again many thanks and wish you heaps of success 


  2. You make some really interesting and compelling points for certain. Like you, I believe that finding happiness is not an outward pursuit. It begins with self analysis which is followed by a keen desire to adapt to any necessary change that facilitates the process. I think your idea of creating a separate email address is spot on. I’ll be sure to implement it. ✊

    • Hi Lyke,

      Thank you so much for the feedback and very humbled that you have taken something from this post: creating a separate Email,  I wish heaps of success on you WA adventure and you fulfil your dreams

      Many blessing 


  3. Hi Jon

    I couldn’t agree with you more about having a second email for my business. I created one about a year ago and it works wonderfully. Great advice.
    It’s so important to take time for ourselves and find that inner peace. It is necessary and our success depends on it.
    Great article, I’ve really enjoyed the read.



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